America is getting older. The overall age of the population of the United States has shifted dramatically over the last 60 to 80 years, and experts agree that its impact on the family is clear.
The overall age of the population of the United States has shifted dramatically over the last 60 to 80 years, and experts agree that its impact on the family is clear.
The overall age of the population of the United States has shifted dramatically over the last 60 to 80 years, and experts agree that its impact on the family is clear.
“There is definitely a changing age structure within families today,” says Neal Cutler, PhD. He is the executive director of the Center on Aging for the Motion Picture and Television Fund in Woodlawn Hills, Calif. “Its cause is simply greater longevity.”
With more Americans living well beyond their
70s, more adult children are now left in a position where they must take on the
role of caregiver for their aging parents.
And
though being a caregiver is something that sounds relatively straightforward,
it actually involves a host of issues that requires a mix of legal, financial
and governmental resources.
From a legal perspective, there are certain documents
you need to have in place in order to be able to care for your aging parents, and
studies have found that nearly half of the adult population in the United
States does not have them. The legal
documents you will need to have in order to become involved in the day to day
affairs of your parent’s lives include the following:
FINANCIAL POWER OF ATTORNEY
A power of attorney (or POA) is a legal document through which an individual authorizes someone to act on his behalf. The person who gives the authority (your parent) is called the principal, and the person who has the authority to act for the principal (you) is called the agent or the attorney-in-fact. Financial power of attorney grants you the legal authority to act on your parents’ behalf for financial issues such as accessing financial accounts, paying bills, taxes, medical expenses, managing real estate assets and more should they become incapacitated and unable to carry out those tasks themselves.
Generally, the timing of when the POA becomes effective is dependent upon future the occurrence of a certain event. The most common future event is the incapacity of the principal which could be due health issues leaving them unable to make necessary and important life decisions. It is a good idea to become familiar with your parents’ affairs before the POA becomes effective.
HEALTHCARE POWER OF ATTORNEY
A healthcare power of attorney allows one or
both of your parents to grant you the authority to make medical and end-of-life
care decisions on their behalf. It allows them to name a trusted person (you) to oversee that
their wishes are carried out, or to use your judgment in directing decisions
about their medical care. In addition to granting you power of attorney, they should name a successor, such as your sibling or other
close relative or friend, in
case you become unable to fulfill the duties.
LIVING WILL
A living will is a type of estate plan that
allows your parents to express their medical and end-of-life treatment
decisions, in order to provide family members and health care personnel with
clear medical care instructions. In general, if a living will meets legal
requirements, then the instructions it provides are legally valid and binding. It does not
appoint anyone to make decisions for your parents and only applies if they are
in a terminal or permanent unconscious condition.
One of the
biggest benefits of the living will is that it helps avoid unwanted treatments and disputes between family
members over your parents’ care. It will allow your parents to name a trusted person (you) to ensure
that their end-of-life wishes are carried out should they not be in the
position to make that clear for themselves.
HIPAA CONSENT FORM
HIPAA — the
Health Information Portability and Accountability Act — provided the first nationally recognizable
regulations for the use and/or disclosure of an individual’s health
information. It is the
federal legislation responsible for keeping personal health information
private.
If your
parents want you to be privy to information about their healthcare, they must
sign a HIPAA document that grants their health care provider permission to share
it with you. At that point, you will have the right to
request and obtain your parents’ health information when necessary.
Of course, none
of these forms will be helpful unless someone knows they exist! You should have the originals, and your parents’ regular doctors
should be provided with copies to keep in the medical records files. If your
parent is planning to enter the hospital, you will probably be asked prior to
admission to provide the hospital with copies of these documents.
When it comes to making arrangements for your aging
parents, most experts would advise you not to wait until it may be too late to
engage in proper legal planning. We encourage you to make a point of having
these conversations with family members while they are still of sound mind and
able to contribute to the conversation and comprehend exactly what documents
they are signing and why. These discussions can be difficult, but an
experienced elder law attorney can help guide the process and ensure that it
goes smoothly. At Oliver and Cheek, we can help you outline exactly what is
needed as you and your family plan for the future care of your aging parents. If you’re ready to start the planning
process, or if you have any questions, please contact the law offices of Oliver
& Cheek by calling (252) 633-1930 or visiting www.olivercheek.com.
(sources: www.nbc.com, www.findlaw.com, www.agingcare.com)